I’m dealing with fair fatigue.

Any NFPW member who ever was a 4-H member (leader, parent, friend, volunteer) or ever worked for a rural newspaper or the county office of a state university’s Extension Service knows exactly what I’m feeling this first full day after the week-long Buffalo County Fair.

For you city folks, all I can do is list some of the energy sapping parts of the experience: early mornings, late nights, long hot days, lots of people, noisy animals, loud music, spinning colored lights of carnival rides, and stories to write and photos to sort with a brain that stopped functioning properly hours earlier.

There can be a lot of waiting around at a fair, especially when there is an animal judge who is, let’s say diplomatically, very meticulous. A week ago today (Wednesday) it took from 8 in the morning to after 9 at night to complete the 4-H Horse Show, even though the timed events – pole bending, barrel racing and roping – had been done Tuesday night.

I will always have a love-hate relationship with the county fair. I know the same is true for all the exhibitors, 4-H families, Extension staff and others whose hours on the fairgrounds were much longer than mine and responsibilities much greater.

One thing we probably all have in common is an urge to punch anyone who asks, “Are you having fun at the fair” at a particularly bad time in the middle of fair week.

I enjoy taking photos at the fair. What more could you want than kids, animals and wild rides?

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I like to visit with the many people I know from the ag community. It’s a joy to see the youngest exhibitors who were scared to death to enter a show ring come away excited and happy.

I greatly admire the 4-H families who are producing outstanding livestock, baked goods, garden produce, sewing projects and many other things. I admire them even more for the amazing children they are raising.

4-H swine, Mykayla Tincher, Kearney

These kids embrace the hard work and dedication required to raise animals. They are polite, respectful, good sports and fun-loving.

4-H Rabbits, Heidi Weekley, Amherst

Yes, there was a certain amount of time spent talking and texting on phones, but not at the expense of a job that needed doing. I actually saw a group of teenage boys playing a card game with upside down coolers used as tables.

Every mid-July, I go through the same cycle of kind of looking forward to the county fair, enjoying some of the events, thinking after a few days that it will never be over and vowing that I cannot cover one more county fair in my career.

We all have those big projects in our work that nearly send us to the end of our ropes. They’re the “I’d rather quit that do that again and feel this worn out again” projects.

The truth is that deep down, I know that next July I will again start highlighting the schedule of fair events and prepare to do the whole thing again.

It’s been a long, strange week for my family during which homes and roles were changed, and we all had an exercise in considering what tangible things are important in our lives.

On Monday, we moved my mom to a memory care unit in an assisted living home in North Platte, about 90 miles west of Kearney. She had lived in an independent apartment in a retirement complex near me for more than 14 years, after moving from the small town home in Wilcox she and Dad had built in 1974 as my twin sister Lisa and I headed off to college.

Before that, my parents had lived on our family farm for 30 years.

Dad died in 1996 – I was at the NFPW Conference in Charlotte, N.C. – and Mom was fine alone in her Wilcox home until 2001. She could have stayed longer, because my farmer brother, Glen, lived just 11 miles away at the farm and I was about 25 miles away in Kearney.

But Mom decided she no longer wanted the responsibilities of finding someone to mow her yard or scoop snow from her driveway. If the winters were long and snowy, she was confined to the house a lot because it was too dangerous to walk to the post office, store or church.

That wasn’t an easy move for her 2001, but she was committed to it and soon had a new “home” in Kearney.

This time, the decision was not hers. At age 96, she has needed some extra care and attention the past two to three years from home health care services and from me as her closest child. When Glen died three years ago this week, that also took a regular visitor out of the care equation, not to mention a big piece of her heart.

So Lisa, our other brother James and I decided that Mom’s fading memory made it the time for a change. The obvious answer was to find a nice place near Lisa, who would take over my role as day-to-day visitor.

She still has three boys at home, but at age 19, 19 and 18, they are in school, job training or preparing to go into the U.S. Marines.

Lisa manages all of the farm and Mom’s business, and is home during the day. One of our biggest concerns has been having Mom alone for days at times when I’m working long hours, such as this week’s Buffalo County Fair week, or gone for a week or more to the NFPW Conference in Alaska.

Lisa and I had talked to Mom about the move on July 5, but, as expected, she did not remember the conversation when we all gathered for the move and to clean out her Kearney apartment last Monday. It was sad and difficult for her to see Lisa pack a suitcase and then leave for a place she hadn’t seen.

I do believe that some of the explanations we gave about why the move was in her best interest and would take a big worry away for her children did make some sense to her.

During 2 ½ days of sorting and packing – things we each took, a bunch of the household items that two of her grandchildren can use, and some furniture, clothes and other personal items going to North Platte – we had to make a lot of toss, keep and decide-later decisions about many of Mom’s things.

She has settled in pretty well at North Platte, although she is in a two-person room for now. We have been first in line for a private room since December, but felt we couldn’t wait any longer to make the move in case she would have a medical emergency and there would be no place available in either Kearney or North Platte to fit her needs.

I went to visit with her on Saturday. Lisa and I took lunch that we ate in a private dining room, and then we visited for awhile until I needed to drive back to Kearney.

Seeing us leave, whether it’s to drive 90 miles home or just a few blocks away, is hard for Mom, as it has been for some time. However, the Linden Court staff tell Lisa that Mom is doing fine when we aren’t there.

We look forward to getting her a private room where we can recapture a setting that seems more like home to her.

It’s just one of those big changes in life that we all face, whether it involves a parent or our own lives. We’re thankful that we have options, but it still isn’t easy.

That’s true whether it involves changing homes, taking a new job or, as both my affiliate and NFPW are doing, charting a new course for an organization.

Nebraska Press Women members worked Saturday at a special summer meeting on the second floor of the Prairie Winds Art Gallery in downtown Grand Island in a third strategic planning session.

The overall effort started with a member survey that had about a two-thirds response, which I understand is an amazingly high number for any type of survey. Our strategic planning leader Judy Nelson of Lincoln reminded us that the last detailed NPW survey had been done by then vice president Jill Claflin before she moved to Georgia to oversee communications for Habitat for Humanity.

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Jill was in Georgia for 18 years and we so happy that she chose to return to Cozad recently and jump right into the the middle of NPW activities again.

We acknowledged that 18 years was too long to take a detailed look at our members needs and interests, and to make some specific plans for our future. The timing is right because NPW turns 70 in 2016 and plans are being developed for a celebration at our spring meeting in Lincoln.

One of the topics in my group – we divided into three groups Saturday to set goals and some priorities toward reaching them – was how the programing and promotion of that event can fit our key areas of membership, visibility and branding.

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We had started this process at our winter board meeting in Grand Island and continued the middle part at our spring convention in Lexington. By the time Barbara Micek and Nancy Hansen host us for a fall meeting in Columbus and Genoa, we will have specific goals with committees assigned to move forward on them.

It has been interesting to me as a member of the NFPW board to watch the same process go forward on the national level. The board and appointed directors worked on this for most of our spring meeting in Las Vegas, under the leadership of Cynthia Price of Virginia and Karen Stensrud of North Dakota, who peppered us with questions and encouraged us to present any an all ideas.

One of the best things about our NPW work on Saturday is we had three twentysomethings – two 2015 members and one who will join in 2016 in September – and another more veteran weekly journalist who is new this year. Their input is much needed to enlighten the majority of the rest of us who count our NPW and NFPW membership in decades.

By being involved in this process on both levels, I hope to find elements unique to each that can be shared with the other.

All of this is probably a message to do some self-review and goal setting, but I think I can handle only two such efforts at a time. Maybe 2016 will be my self-awareness year.

Independence Day has two meanings for me.

It’s the celebration of our country’s founding, of course. But especially in recent years, it’s the day when I carve out a little time to do something I want to do, even if part of the day involves work at the newspaper, chores at home or family responsibilities.

I spent my Independence Day afternoon Saturday at the Sumner Rodeo. It’s a 65-year tradition at the small town about 35 miles northwest of Kearney that is put on by the Sumner Saddle Club … in other words, all local volunteers and sponsors.

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The family that oversees the rodeo are great folks. They let me go just about wherever I want to go to take photos. This is one of the few rodeos that is in a small outdoor arena and has one of its two performances in the middle of the day. Those are required conditions for my basic camera equipment.

I love the time to just do what I want to do in the way I want to do it. Such times have become increasingly rare.

I loved the drive up Highway 40 past green corn and soybean fields, grazing cattle, and carpets of green pastures that were the recipients of wonderful spring rains. With a pretty good south breeze, the tall grasses and swaying crops seemed to be, as Willa Cather put it, as if they were galloping across the landscape.

NFPW member Mary Jane Skala went to the Sumner Rodeo with me the past three years. In 2012, she had been in Kearney and working at the Hub for only a month when I invited her to go.

She sat in the bleachers so quietly throughout the rodeo, I didn’t know what she thought. Then in late June 2013, she asked me if we were going to the Sumner Rodeo again.

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Mary Jane now works at the Ghost Ranch retreat in New Mexico, but still writes her Hub column each Monday. Part of her message last week was that she would miss going to the July 4 rodeo this year.

The events, as usual, included bareback and saddle bronc riding, steer wrestling, barrel racing, and team, tie-down and breakaway calf roping. The rodeo always ends with the signature event: bull riding.

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The bulls, broncs and even the wily calves mostly won over the cowboys and cowgirls on Saturday. One bull rider had the wind knocked out of him and a couple others had a hitch in their get-alongs after being bucked off, but no one – and no animals – was serious hurt.

Meanwhile, I caught up with some people I know, drank the best iced tea I ever had about mid-way through the rodeo and drove home with the galloping landscape as my escort.

I told myself along the way that I MUST create more Independence Days just for me. I really couldn’t remember the last time I went somewhere or did something that didn’t have a work or other have-to component.

And for the next two months, whenever I get tired or feel there are too many demands on my time, I will remind myself that the NFPW Conference in Alaska is ahead.

It will be my 2015 Independence Week!!

I was thinking of my NFPW friends Wednesday night as I sat under a huge white tent on the grounds of the historic Frank House on the University of Nebraska at Kearney campus.

It was the first night of Nebraska Chautauqua week in Kearney at which one re-enactor was featured for most of the program. On Wednesday, it was author Willa Cather, portrayed by Cather scholar Betty Jean Steinshouer.

Mark Twain, portrayed by Warren Brown, is the emcee each night of the Chautauqua. It concludes Sunday night with Nebraska’s Chief Standing Bear, the Ponca chief who won a court case that for the first time declared that Native Americans have citizenship rights under the U.S. Constitution.

Twain and Cather knew each other, so they shared the stage at the end of Wednesday’s performance to answer questions, first in character and then as scholars of the two authors.

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I went to the Chautauqua with Nebraska Press Women member Glennis Nagel, who had been my news writing teacher at Kearney State College in the 1975-76 school year and a mentor ever since.

Also with us was Jane Ziebarth Bovill, a UNK teacher education professor and one of my best friends at Wilcox High School back in the day. Her husband recently died, so this was a good event to ease her back into some community-UNK activities.

As I listened to Willa Cather’s words, I thought the NFPW members on the Nebraska pre-tour ahead of our 2011 conference in Omaha-Council Bluffs.

The Virginians who came along were especially excited to visit Red Cloud, the Nebraska prairie town where Cather grew up and met many of the people who would be the patterns for characters in the great author’s Nebraska-based books.

Cather was born in Virginia. She was an unhappy 10-year-old when her family moved to such an empty place. Eventually, she fell in love with the vast land and sky, and came to admire the immigrants and other pioneers who settled the prairie after the Homestead Act gave them an opportunity to own their own land.

I was surprised to hear Cather say her book “O Pioneers” is flawed, mostly because she tried to pattern it after other writers’ styles. Any flaws escaped me because it always has been my favorite Cather book, with “My Antonia” a close second.

Jane and I told Steinshouer that the granddaughter of Annie Pavelka, the immigrant girl who inspired the Antonia character, was a friend of ours in Wilcox.

I interviewed Phyllis once for the Hub and she showed me a family scrapbook that included a handwritten note from Cather to her father, Hugo. In part it told Hugo to thank his mother, Annie, for sending the kolaches home with her on the train after a visit to the Red Cloud area.

My great-great-grandfather went to Red Cloud after serving with the Union Army during the Civil War because his parents and at least two brothers already were in the area. They operated a mill on the Republican River and owned a store.

Great-great Grandpa Charles R. Potter moved to the Wilcox area to the northwest to open his own store on the Alma-to-Kearney freight route. The name, Freewater Store, distinguished his business from other road ranches that charged teamsters to water their animals.

I’ll never know if he or other Potter ancestors ever crossed paths with Cather in Red Cloud.

The Chautauqua provided a nice evening to be with two good friends listening to Cather’s and Twain’s voices talking about themselves.

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In her essay for the Chautauqua program, Steinshouer wrote that while Cather went to the University of Nebraska to study medicine, she quickly changed her career path after writing reviews of theatrical and musical troupes passing through Lincoln and Omaha, and seeing her name in print in the Lincoln Star Journal and Evening News.

It was an interesting twist Wednesday to learn that nine of her stories during that time were about the Big Tent Chautauqua Assembly along the Big Blue River near Crete in 1894.

The every-five-year, all-class reunion of Wilcox (Neb.), now Wilcox-Hildreth, High School was Saturday night at the Kearney Holiday Inn. It has been quite a few reunions since anyone thought it was a good idea to cater a banquet in the small, hot high school gym in the middle of June.

Some things about this reunion were the same as always, including that too many “locals,” graduates who still live in and around Wilcox, didn’t come. I know they think they see each other all of the time, but I always feel bad for the alumni who came home from afar expecting to see more familiar faces around their tables.

The great thing about an all-class reunion for a small community like my hometown is that you get to see people from other classes, church, 4-H and many other activities.

There were about 300 K-12 students at Wilcox when I graduated in 1974, which would be a small senior class in most big city schools, even Kearney. I started kindergarten in a class of 11 and graduated in a class of 17, including six of us who had gone all the way through together.

Because there were only five girls in my class, including my twin sister, some of my best friends were in the class just behind me. One, who had lived most of her adult life in Lincoln, found love a second time around a few years ago and moved to Red Oak, Iowa, was at the banquet Saturday.

I enjoyed my visit with Sheryl and many other friends. It still is strange to see them as adults and hear them talk about grandchildren and retirement plans. Yes, I did have to check some name tags to know who was walking toward me for a visit.

Once the reintroductions were made, we fell into conversations and told stories as if we were all teenagers again enjoying the rich full life of high school in a small town. We may not have appreciated those times then, but I’m sure there isn’t a one of us who would not pay for the privilege of going back for just one day.

The guest speaker was Larry Jensen, a longtime and much-loved math teacher at WHS in the late 1960s and early 1970s. He mostly told stories, without naming names so that it would spark a memory for some people without embarrassing anyone in public.

His wife also was a Wilcox teacher. They met when she came to do her student teaching. They went to all the school activities, some as sponsors, and Mr. Jensen – can’t call him Larry – drove a school bus route.

They have four children, all born after they moved to a larger Nebraska town to teach and for Mr. Jensen to work as a school administrator. One of the best things he said Saturday was they didn’t start a family sooner because all of the Wilcox kids seemed like their kids.

It is amazing how such important times in our lives keep us forever tied to people we may have only known for a few years as youngsters. A reunion is a time to catch up and reminisce, of course, but for one evening, it makes it feel as though our special time together was yesterday.

NFPW conferences also have those qualities. Our time together once a year doesn’t allow us to know all about each other, even though friendships have been forged that keep some members from different states in constant contact throughout the years.

Our relationships are as professional communicators who have shared some of our experiences, knowledge, highlights and heartaches. It’s wonderful how quickly we fall into that relationship and into friendships at the annual conferences. And also how quickly many first-timers become a part of that tradition.

I tell people I don’t care much for reunions, but there are two major exceptions. It would take extreme circumstances for me to miss a Wilcox High School Alumni Banquet or an NFPW annual conference, which is why I hope to see you in Anchorage this September.

One of the most interesting parts of being a journalist is encountering interesting people and wildlife.

Many two-legged, four-legged, winged and furry creatures are real characters, with big personalities, interesting talents and skills, unusual interests, and different ways of looking at things. They can make me laugh and remind me not to pretend that I know much about anything.

I met one of these four-legged characters at horse farm Friday morning.

I had an interview with a 22-year-old man who is a farrier (shoes horses) by trade and also a bull rider in small area rodeos. It’s my turn for a Kearney Hub Monday profile on June 29, just ahead of the annual July 3 and 4 Sumner Rodeo.

I have shots of Zach riding a bull at the 2014 Sumner Rodeo. He plans to ride again in a few weeks and maybe compete in team calf roping. So, the timing was right to profile him.

He’s on the road almost constantly in his business – he goes to the horses, they don’t come to him – but was home on Friday morning and could do the interview. He needed to shoe his own horse for team roping that night at the nearby Overton Rodeo, at which he also rode bulls.

As we walked to the corral and barn, where I could get a photo of him shoeing his horse to go along with the bull riding file art, his girlfriend rode an ATV into the pasture to gather their eight horses. She does barrel racing at rodeos, but had to take Friday night off because her buckskin horse came in from the pasture a little lame, probably from stepping in a hole.

As Zach and I walked past a small shed, I heard “Baaaaaaa.” When I asked if he had a sheep, he replied that they were bottle feeding a young goat they had gotten to graze the farmyard. They started with two goats, but the other one died suddenly during a seizure.

He let the little white goat out and he followed us around until he saw the ATV coming over the pasture hill with the horses following. Once, he got into the corral, he blended in with Ashley, the horses and the couple’s two working boarder collies.

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It was like the goat didn’t know he was a goat. He was just part of a big happy family in which didn’t matter that everyone was unique.

I like that kind of thinking in our big, diverse world with so many interesting characters. It would be mighty dull if we all acted, thought and looked alike.

One of the best parts of NFPW conferences is visiting with people from other states. We are all professional communicators, but we do many different things in our work, play and family activities. We have introverts, extroverts, members who are shy and those who have never known a stranger.

And yes, there are some characters.

Because each of us is unique, I don’t expect us to think alike, agree on everything or enjoy the same things. That doesn’t exclude us from being friends and colleagues. It just makes the relationships more rich, full and interesting.

I hope all NFPW members are considering coming to Anchorage, Alaska, in September for our 2015 conference. We will visit incredible places, learn many new things and enjoy each other’s company.

And I guarantee that you’ll meet some characters who will enrich your life!

So what is your brand?

No, I’m not going to pretend to understand “branding” as a marketing tool, business or institutional image, or key element in developing a small business plan.

If you need expertise on those topics, read “Cynthia’s Communique,” the blog of NFPW Past President and Communicator of Achievement Director Cynthia Price of Virginia.

I’m more familiar with the use of brands in ranch country of the Great Plains and West to permanently identify ownership and, usually, place of birth for cattle. That’s important to people who want to trace the origins of food products and to cattle owners who use unique brands to help protect against theft.

The ear tags cattle producers use to match mama cows and babies, and to keep business records can be removed or fall out. A brand is much more difficult to remove, or explain to brand inspectors without an accompanying bill of sale.

As I spent Saturday from before sunrise until a beef brisket dinner in the early afternoon in a green-carpeted Gosper County pasture that is part of the Cross Diamond Ranch, it occurred to me that the brand worn by the cinnamon to rust, dark brown to black cattle also is tied to the producers’ reputation.

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This was the largest of several branding days for Scott and Kim Ford, their ranch employees, neighbors and friends, with 230 calves rounded up in the pasture hills, separated for a time from their mothers, branded and given three vaccinations.

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It was great to watch the well-coordinated veteran crew work with their equally talented, equally calm horses.

This was not the wild branding day that’s part of Hollywood fantasy. The roundup seemed mostly like a pleasure-pace ride through the pasture.

Yes, there was some wailing of mothers and babies during the separation period. But once the calves were sorted, it was amazing how quickly and quietly the men, women and horses worked.

Each calf was roped by a leg or two, slowly dragged across damp grass to the waiting cowboys. Two held each calf on its side until it could be branded and receive three shots, a process that usually took less than 30 seconds.

Does a brand hurt? Probably, even on a thick hairy hide. But I’m sure it’s far less painful than what is experienced by people who “brand” themselves with tattoos and/or piercings.

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Would you not vaccinate your young children because you didn’t want to upset them or have them holler for a bit?

Branding day is hard work. However, the serious, sometimes dangerous business still allows time to catch up with friends and share a good time with other folks who wouldn’t want to be anywhere else on a beautiful spring morning.

I appreciated being allowed to observe the event and take photos. No one yelled at me about being in the way, although a mama cow let out a bawl right behind me that nearly scared me to death.

I went to branding day to take photos and get information for a story-essay or something in writing for next Saturday’s Kearney Hub ag feature.

I was reminded about some of the many things I love about living in rural Nebraska. It’s where neighbors always come to help, farmers and ranchers love their land and their livestock, and some tried and true traditions carry on.

All those things are part of the Nebraska brand.

Memorial Day is a time to honor huge sacrifices made for the greater good by people in our lives and in our world. The focus is on our military veterans, and that certainly was the case this morning when I shot photos at the Kearney Cemetery program.

However, visiting any cemetery also is a time to remember “average folks” who contributed to good causes in their own, smaller ways.

Raising children, building a main street business, creating a sustainable farm or ranch, or being of service to your community, school or professional organization are big accomplishments made up of millions of little things done day to day, year to year. There are so many of those little things that they generally go unnoticed.

In recent years, Americans have done a much better job of thanking veterans and those currently in the military.

I’ve been on Buffalo County Hero Flights with groups of World War II and Korean War veterans. When I asked them at the end of their few days in Washington, D.C., what impressed them most, many talked about the war memorials. However, all of them said how much it meant to them to have people, especially children, come up to them, shake their hands and thank them for their service.

As I was leaving the cemetery this morning, I noticed an elderly woman wearing a yellow coat who was tending a small section of the cemetery like it was her special garden of military headstones. She went from one stone to the next with a hand-held broom removing the dust, grass clippings, fallen leaves and other debris from the base and top of each.

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When I got a little closer to her, I noticed she was doing this despite having one arm in a sling.

“I’m just cleaning up my neighborhood,” she told me, after pointing out the headstone with her late husband’s name on it.

I didn’t ask how often she comes to that patch of cemetery with her broom in hand, but I’m certain she’s there every Memorial Day.

Her dedication in making that little part of the world a little nicer as a gift to her husband and some other veterans made me think about how important little acts of kindness and support have been to me.

Nothing in my professional career has meant more to me than words of encouragement from people whose opinion I highly value.

Most such words have come from my Nebraska Press Women and National Federation of Press Women mentors, colleagues and friends. A note of thanks, a “how are you doing?” at a busy, stressful time or a “well done” works just as well as a brush to sweep away a burden or a cloud.

I’ll use the image of the woman in the yellow coat as a reminder to do better in returning such favors.

Rural Nebraskans know it’s almost impossible to have your hometown mentioned in national news publications or broadcasts unless a tragedy is involved.

Hardly anyone had heard of Pilger, Neb., until it was nearly destroyed last year by a tornado. Even then, the headlines beyond our state borders lasted only a few days. In tornado alley, your weather-related tragedy often is quickly knocked off the front page by someone else’s monster storm.

Sadly, my hometown of Wilcox, Neb., has been newsworthy this week because one of the pilots on the U.S. Marine Corps helicopter that crashed while delivering aid to earthquake victims in Nepal was a Wilcox native.

Capt. Dustin “Dusty” Lukasiewicz was featured in a video shot just a few days earlier about the Marines’ work in Nepal. He narrated the story of how they were delivering food and tarps to people in remote mountain villages and ended the video with, “We stand with Nepal.”

Dusty graduated from Wilcox-Hildreth High School in 2003. My nephew, Scott, was a K-12 classmate and the boys were close friends. I heard Scott talk about doing things with Dusty over the years, and they were groomsmen in each other’s wedding.

I called Scott Friday and got him to tell me some stories about Dusty. They played side-by-side on the offensive line on their eight-man football team, went hunting and, with another classmate, bought an old beat up pickup that they drove through pastures and on other adventures.

Both boys are grown men now with families of their own. Scott has a 2-year-old boy and baby girl born in late February. Dusty has a young girl and his wife is expecting their second child in June.

The news of Dusty’s death is a reminder of the dangers involved in military service, even when the work is humanitarian in nature, not war.

It also puts a focus on why the Marines are there. Every family in Nepal who lost loved ones, homes and their livelihoods is feeling the same pain as the families of the U.S. Marines lost in the helicopter crash.

It’s a reminder for journalists that the stories we cover about deaths, storm damage, fires and other tragedies involve real people and not just characters in a story. The Bible’s instructions to treat others as we would want to be treated should apply to covering such hard news stories.

Until the bodies of the six Marines and two Nepalese soldiers killed in the shadow of Mount Everest are retrieved, brought to their hometowns and laid to rest, Wilcox probably will be mentioned in the national news.

And I’m sure the video featuring the Wilcox kid everyone called Dusty, with the difficult-to-pronounce last name, will be shown and watched online thousands of times.

Someday, it probably will be used to help tell two young children why their dad was a special man who served his country well.

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